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Beyond Looking Younger: What Does Healthy Ageing Really Mean?

I'm not trying to turn back the clock. I'm interested in making the most of the years ahead. Recently, I've had a few people comment on how great I look. One even thought I was wearing a full face of makeup. The truth? A little eye makeup and something on my lips. That's it! It made me smile, but it also took me back to something that happened this summer. I was travelling and stopped at Walmart to pick up a couple of cans of margarita. I was asked for ID. Then I was asked again. After the second time, I decided to ask out of curiosity: "How old does someone have to look before you stop asking for ID?" The answer? "If you look under 40, we ask." I smiled as I handed over my driver's licence, showing that I had just turned 52. Now, I'm not sharing this to suggest that looking younger means we're biologically younger. Appearance alone cannot tell us that. But it did get me thinking about something much bigger. If people are noticing how I l...

The Peaks, The Valleys & Everything In Between

Learning to embrace every season of life with faith, grace and gratitude. Life has a way of taking us through peaks and valleys. Some seasons feel effortless. We're excited, energized, motivated and everything seems to be falling into place. We feel like we're exactly where we're supposed to be. And then there are the valleys. The unexpected detours. The disappointments. The moments when progress seems to stall, plans change, or we find ourselves questioning what comes next. I've been thinking about how much of life happens in between those two places. And perhaps that's where some of our greatest growth takes place. The valley isn't a wrong turn It's easy to celebrate the peaks. We share the accomplishments, the milestones, the happy moments and the beautiful experiences. But what about the seasons that challenge us? The times when we're uncertain, frustrated or simply don't have the answers? I've learned that being in a valley doesn't mean ...

Could Stress Be Affecting Your Weight-Loss Journey? What I’m Learning Since Coming Home

🌿 STRESS LESS, RELEASE MORE Let's get a little personal! After spending 2½ months on the road exploring new places, walking beaches, visiting state parks, and enjoying so much time outdoors, I arrived home and discovered I'd gained 6 pounds. Six pounds! 😳 Naturally, I started asking myself… What changed? Was it my stress level? My environment? My daily routine? My sleep? My eating habits? During my road trip, I was walking more, spending less time in front of a screen, exploring new places, and experiencing something different almost every day. Now I'm home, back to familiar routines, responsibilities, and surroundings. I don't know exactly what contributed to the change on the scale. Weight can fluctuate for many reasons, including changes in fluid levels, eating patterns, activity, and routine. Six pounds doesn't automatically mean six pounds of body fat. But the experience got me thinking about something we don't always consider when working toward a health...

I Didn’t Come Home to Go Back to My Old Life

Sometimes the journey changes you in ways you don’t fully understand until you return home. When I left home for my road trip, I knew I wanted an adventure. What I didn’t realize was how much the experience would remind me of who I am when I step outside the routines, expectations, and patterns of everyday life. For two and a half months, I explored new places, discovered beautiful beaches, visited lighthouses and waterfalls, wandered through state parks, and experienced the freedom of not having every moment planned. I travelled more than 10,000 miles with my dog, Zen, in a 20-year-old vehicle. There were unexpected detours, challenges, moments of uncertainty, and plenty of reasons to change plans along the way. And there were moments when I simply had to trust that the next step would reveal itself. What I discovered was that I felt more like myself than I had in a long time. I Wasn’t Waiting for Life to Happen At home, it can be easy to fall into familiar routines. We tell ourselves...

When Things Don’t Go According to Plan, Look for What’s Still Good

I don't think anyone gets through life without things going wrong. Plans change. Cars have problems. Keys get locked inside vehicles. Weather doesn't cooperate. People disappoint us. Unexpected expenses show up. And sometimes, despite our best efforts, the day simply doesn't go the way we pictured it. My summer road trip gave me plenty of opportunities to practice this. And one of the biggest things I came home with wasn't a souvenir or a photograph. It was a reminder: Even when something goes wrong, there is usually something good happening at the same time. We just have to notice it. The locked keys One day, I managed to lock my keys in my vehicle. Not exactly what you want when you're travelling. But where was I? At the ocean. And Zen was with me. So yes, I was waiting for a tow truck and dealing with an inconvenience—but I was also sitting at the ocean with my dog. The situation wasn't ideal. But the entire experience didn't have to become only about wha...

What Happened When I Stopped Focusing on the Scale

I didn't leave home this summer thinking I was going on a weight-loss journey. Actually, quite the opposite. Before I left, I had been frustrated. I felt like I had hit a plateau. The scale wasn't moving the way I wanted it to, and there were even times when I wondered if I was gaining. I was thinking about my weight. Watching the numbers. Wondering what I was doing wrong. And then I left. I packed up my car, loaded up Zen, and headed out on the road. What happened next surprised me. I started living differently. I wasn't following a strict workout program. I wasn't spending hours in a gym. I wasn't counting every step because I was trying to reach some magic number. I was simply moving because there were places I wanted to explore. I was walking through state parks. Walking along beaches. Exploring new towns. Hiking around campgrounds. Walking because I wanted to see what was around the next corner. I was outside for much of the day instead of sitting inside watchi...

Sometimes You Have to Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Life

For a long time, I was really good at living in my head. Thinking things through. Analyzing. Planning. Wondering what could go wrong. Waiting until I knew the right answer, the right time, or the right next step. And honestly? Sometimes our minds are helpful. They help us plan. They help us prepare. They help us make wise decisions. But there comes a point when thinking becomes overthinking. And that's when we can miss life. This summer, I decided to do something different. I left home and travelled through North America without having every detail mapped out. I had places I wanted to see and a general direction I wanted to go, but I didn't have an exact plan for every day. I chose to allow the journey to unfold. And for me, that meant something bigger than travelling. It meant learning to trust. To listen. To be willing to change direction. To say yes to an opportunity that wasn't on the original plan. And sometimes, to simply see what was around the next corner. Getting o...